So I’m going to tell you how I earn my punishment numbers. We have developed a series of rules that I am to observe at all times. Currently we have 26 written rules, but there are unwritten rules too. Generally speaking, the unwritten rules aren’t broken too often as they are somewhat ingrained in my brain. An example of these is the rule not to leave the toilet seat up. I don’t do that often, and frankly since I’m caged, I usually am sitting anyways. The written rules have taken a little longer to flesh out and are a fluid thing. Rules come and go. Finally there are also temporary rules.
Likely the most important rule is the fact that my Queen is never wrong, makes all the rules and can interpret them anyway she likes. So at times, if I annoy her, she will state that I’m in contravention of the rules and she will assign punishment. If I argue, I can increase the number as I’m not allowed to argue with her.
The remainder of the rules are designed to minimize behaviours that my Queen finds odious or annoying. I’m not allowed to interrupt her or be rude to her. While typically I am polite, I can forget myself sometimes in the presence of others and my more naturally dominant personality comes to the for. I can cut off my Queen or occasionally without meaning to, be rude to her. She’ll give me a look or a short comment and immediately I realize what I’ve done and know that I will be punished for my transgression. There are a number of pet phrases I use on a regular basis. My Queen finds some of them truly annoying, so I’m not permitted to use them in her presence. These are tough rules for me as I have used these phrases all of my adult life. Frankly, I often still use them in my work environment.
Some of the rules are designed to make me neater. I must pick up after myself and put various items away. If I leave them lying around, my punishment number increases. I’m to keep myself well groomed–eyebrows, ear, nose, and pubic hair must be trimmed to her liking at all times. Other rules are designed to make my Queen’s life easier. I must make sure the outside light is on so that when my Queen arrives home, she isn’t arriving in darkness.
Still other rules deal with showing my Queen respect. I’m not to walk in front of my Queen at any time. I’m to open doors for her and shut them afterwards–if they need to be closed. These rules are in addition to the rules mentioned above about being polite and not arguing. When we are watching TV together, I must ask permission to look/use my phone. I’m to respond to my Queen quickly if she asks anything of me. Failure to answer or answering slowly will result in punishment.
The final rules all deal with sex and sexual situations. I’m not allowed to ask sexual questions without permission. Nor can I instigate sexual conduct–she has all the control of all sexual acts. She can ask me to be rough or to act like I’m dominating her, but she is ultimately in control and I cannot orgasm without permission–even if I’m dominating her. I am not allowed to grope her–I admit that at times I like to do this–I think all males do! In my case it adds to my punishment number. Finally, I must sit to pee whenever I am home even if I am not caged. This amuses my Queen.
So as I said I have 26 rules currently. While I haven’t listed them exactly, I have given you the gist of them. Most rule infractions add 40 to my punishment number. There are occasionally times where my Queen will desire something of me and will make up a temporary rule on the spot. We might be out somewhere and I might be fatigued. If she catches me nodding off, she has at times warned me of dozing telling me that if I doze I will be subject to (usually) an extreme punishment as she wants my company. I do everything in my power to make sure I don’t fall asleep. At other times, she introduces other rules just for the evening or situation we find ourselves in.
Now while I have discussed punishment in other posts, I just want to go over how I’m punished. My Queen doesn’t like to punish me when others are around. Therefore, my number often rises to something really big. Slathering Icy hot over her (my)cock and balls along with my nipples and anus is good for a reduction of 20 from the number. I think this is because the Icy Hot lasts about 15-20 minutes at full power before it starts to fade away. Using the zapper also reduces the number, but it is a reduction of one for every zap. I’m fairly certain that few people know the ‘pleasure’ of receiving several hundred zapps back to back. lol Spanking also lowers the number and again one spank is equal to 1 of the number. She uses a variety of implements to spank, but I really don’t like receiving huge numbers of spanks at one time. It can cause marks that last for up to two weeks and make sitting less than pleasant. She has used other means of punishment. In the fall, I was forced to do laps in the pool–at the time the pool temp was about 50 degrees Fahrenheit. That was less than pleasant. Particularly as if I didn’t finish the number of laps she had wanted, the punishment number would increase instead of being lowered. She has used soap in my mouth and made me sleep on the floor or in the garage–though these punishments are very rare.
At the moment my number is 200 even. I likely won’t get punished until the April 1st weekend. Hopefully the number will not be too much bigger or she will find some time prior to that weekend to dish out some punishment.