One of the toys I really wanted to get was the zapper! When I approached my Queen about it, she was indifferent to it but as is my wont, I waited a bit and then went out and got it. Roughly one year ago I introduced it to my wife and over the past year, it has become one of her favourite toys to use on me. She uses it to punish me and sometimes while we have sex (it adds intensity), and also occasionally for entertainment and to message me. Let’s examine each use: punishment. When we first stated using this, my Queen was tentative and seldom went to the max level. But she really enjoyed my reactions and quickly lost her reticence–the high numbers were fair game. Now she cycles through all the levels but most of the time she’s using levels 12 and up (recently gave me 500 back to back at level 15–the max)! I definitely react to this.
Now there has been a learning curve for me too. I found that I could attach the device at differing levels of tightness. If it was looser, then the shock wasn’t as bad! Good eh! I’ll fool her! But the thing about a looser attachment is that the device will sag or slide down further on my scrotum. Now there’s the rub!! I hate shocks that go straight into my testicles!! Ouch. Not very pleasant at all. And the collar works lose by the very nature of its design so I have taken to tightening it right up so it doesn’t slide down to my testes–which of course means I really feel the shocks! So I guess it’s really more fool me!! She wins again! lol
Now another use of the zapper is entertainment! I guess my noises and my movements when I’m shocked are tremendously amusing. At least my Queen thinks so–she laughs at my antics all the time! And she will shock me for her own amusement!
Then of course there is the zapper sex! The intensity of the sex definitely increases when she is zapping me as we make love! The weird thing is that Angus will actually get harder as she shocks away!
The final way she uses zapping is to communicate with me. When she arrives home from work she zapps me as she’s pulling into the driveway. This signals that I’m to go out to the car and open the door for her and bringing in her audit bag. She may be downstairs and want me to come to her–so she signals me by zapps. I tend to respond rapidly to her “beckoning” me this way! lol
So currently these are the ways we use the zapper. I think it’s fair to say that she has embraced this device to a level I never imagined! But I think it’s kind of cool.