The Myths of Chastity! Or Ramblings from a Horny Boy!

We all fantasize and those of us in male chastity likely fantasize more than most.  We are probably in this lifestyle because of our fantasies!  Type in male chastity on Tumblr or just the normal web–images and sites devoted to chastity fantasies abound! 

One of the recurring myths is the male in chastity who will do anything for his Mistress in order to be allowed an orgasm!!  I can’t speak for every male, but that’s not me. I love my Queen! I do things for her because I want her to be happy! It makes me feel good to please her and to make her life easier. I don’t do things so that I may cum. Admittedly the time frames between orgasms for me is extreme. It’s been over 8 months and I am looking at about 16 more months before I am even eligible to have one so the myth just doesn’t apply to me! I have a mind and a free will and will do things I want when I want.  However I have agreed that my Queen is the boss and has the final say. So I do obey her and I’m not fond of punishment so I try not to break her rules!  So if I want something and she says “No”, then I don’t get it! 

Yesterday we went to see Stephen King’s “IT”.  I am prone to dropping off to sleep easily!! Even when attending a movie that I’ve paid for.  A few seconds in my eyes briefly shut. My Queen leaned over and said “If you go to sleep I’m adding a month to the time before you can orgasm, you’ll sleep on the floor tonight without pillow or blanket, and when we get home you’ll do 100 push-ups!”   Now that is some heavy duty punishment! I admit I was both turned on and aghast! I did not want to suffer the consequences of failure. Sleeping on the floor is one thing, but without pillows or blankets?? And adding another month!!!!  It was difficult but I made it through the film. A couple of times my eyes may have closed for a second but it wasn’t noticed so I’m good. 

So my behaviour is effected more by my desire to please and my dislike of punishment rather than my desire to orgasm.  I also can’t be “made to do anything” for a simple orgasm. It’s a myth!  

Another myth (at least from my perspective) is the woman in charge wanting a feminized sissy.  I know my wife doesn’t and I know I don’t want to be one. I think that occurs but in a minority of cases. I also think the males in those relationships drive the feminization.  They have fantasies/fetishes involving female clothing and their wives go along with it.  And that’s completely cool, but not all males in chastity move in that direction.  In my home my word is law ( to all but my Queen, lol). In my extended family, I am the head!  I am the person my siblings lean on and get strength from.  My father relies on me for many things too.  I’m not sure they could grasp the fact that my Queen has final say about everything! lol 

But she does!!

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18 comments

  1. i love this … i think the myth covers us slaves too. that we only do things for our Master’s so we can orgasm.

    And … like your heavenly self, i do what i can for Master to ease His life, to make Him happy most certainly not for my own gratification.

    i am glad you made it through the movie – was it good ?

    and yes … yet another preconception about male chasity.

    much love dear one

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      • smiles – i adore horror. as a child, my mother and brother were in england and i was with my father (we lived in hong kong). it was late and i was watching an old peter cushing vampire film. i had all the lights out etc. my darling Pa went to bed and reminded me to turn off the lights – he knew i would get really scared and turn them all on before the end of the film.

        i woke the next morning with my bed surrounded by my mothers crosses and silver bible. garlic galore scattered here and there. and every single light on in the apartment ! … plus a couple of radios. my Pa looked at me and raised his eyes and giggled.

        But it is very hard to find a proper good horror

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  2. I’ve nodded off in a movie or two myself. First, my mind starts to wander, then zzzzzzzzz. Clever way to keep you riveted to the screen. I know you’ve said many times, that you love pleasing your wife, but I’m curious about what appeals to you in a FLR?

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  3. Regarding your feminization comments. I am of of those in the minority. I have had fantasies about it that has driven it in some relationships, but the one I am in now is way different. Mistress is bi, and she has me dress up to fulfill her desire for a feminine partner. When we met, she drove my feminization way more than I wanted it. I could have indulged in it very occasionally but she had other plans. She has pushed me from dressing for only the kink aspect of it to actually dressing to please her on a daily basis. I still have a difficult time of it occasionally, but she has conditioned me for so long now that I accept my place as her girlfriend. In public, I am as masculine as they come and am considered an Alpha to friends, family and colleagues. Mistress gets the best of both worlds. A strong man that can protect her and take care of her as well as a submissive sissy the can control completely. I know you are not criticizing, just commenting on your view of things.

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