At some point in the relatively recent past, I read a blog that wondered if we (the blogging world) were proud of our kink. This started me thinking. Am I proud of my kinks? I definitely have some kinks that are not the norm…lol Despite it’s growing popularity, caging a male is not a normal or common thing. And that’s only one of my kinks. On top of the cage, I’ve recently become part of a wholly female led relationship. My Queen tells me to jump, and I ask how high! lol Actually I better not ask anything–I should just start jumping.
Most men would find this concept difficult to comprehend. When I would say that I am punished by my wife, they would look at me with scorn and disbelief! Or at least that’s what I assume would happen. My business involves men and women, but my area is virtually totally male dominated. My colleagues would be totally aghast at my lifestyle. If they knew I had gone over 8 months since an orgasm, they would get a straight jacket and bind me up!
And yet I’m not ashamed when speaking to people in the fetish community. I am willing to allow them full access! lol They actually might get more than they bargained for.
Within my relationship, I have the following kinks (and the list is not complete as it’s off the top of my head and this is good enough): I enjoy exhibitionism, voyeurism, oral sex, PIV sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation, denial, edging, bondage, the idea of punishment (the actuality is less pleasing lol), golden showers, public sex, rope play, being totally dominated, and so many more but I’m going to stop here. Again most of these are things I wouldn’t mention to anyone except those in the fetish community. But I’m not ashamed!
So who knows all of the above? My Queen, and all of you! My family doesn’t know, nor do my colleagues at work. The guys I play sports with don’t know, and the people I go to church with don’t know. No one knows except my Queen!
So I’m not ashamed–MUCH…lol
The picture in this post is one we took this summer while we were away. I love to look at my Queen, and so this is an example of my voyeurism. She pleases my eyes…
Thats a fine set of kinks you have there Michael – said the pastor! 😀
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lol. Thanks. What goes on behind closed doors…
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You’re a champion Michael. Kinkfest going on over here. Google the podcast on our kink. Miss Jane and Mistress Knickers I think.
We walk different paths to an extent, yet any word you write is never wasted.
I appreciate your writing.
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Thanks. Much appreciated! Google topic–kinkfest??
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Melbourne, Australia. 10th year. Good festival in inner city suburb of Fitzroy.
2 friends of mine also have a business involved http://www.ourkink.com
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I’ll have a look
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Cheers. Pretty powerful weekend beginning here. Should have seen yesterday… ah well. Back to research. Jim Morrison’s statement was was correct. People should relax a bit though. Long and loose like an Essendon wingman playing out of half back 😅😇🤠
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If you’re ever over here, it’s a pretty laid back lifestyle mostly
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I do hope to visit both Australia and New Zealand one day. Both on my bucket list!
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The Kiwis have struggled recently with successive generations of very ugly sheep 😅😅🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐏
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lol.
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I had to look up piv… I’m old enough that it seems funny that would be a kink. I’ve been working on a post about shame. You’ve given me a bit more to ponder, thank you!
Some beautiful photography there!
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I don’t really think of piv as a kink but I do like it and the fact that I am not allowed to orgasm makes it kinky. lol
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That it does!
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You didn’t break it down? You mean I have to look up PIV myself? 🤓
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Penis in vagina–I’ll tell you now that you’ve looked it up!
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Great topic! Not sure I’d I’ve ever mentioned that being that I’m very proudtobekinky (see what I did there :p). I think it’s absolutely possible to proud of your kinks without telling your fellow church goers. I think everyone who blogs about their kinks and talks openly of them in a suitable space does wonders for helping others be proud and honest about their own kinks. Floss 🙂
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Thanks for the comment Floss! I agree totally.
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This is a great post and you have got me thinking. And wow what a gorgeous body your Queen has.
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She does indeed!! I forgot how much I like it when she sits on my face! lol. I should have added “queening”.
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You can always add it in lol
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True enough. But I don’t like to edit posts after the fact.
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Thanks
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Love you and your kinky self! I’m back from vacay!!! 🙂
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So nice to see you back!! I’m doing cartwheels! Looking forward to hearing about your vacation! I hope it was fabulous!
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It was fabulous! Glad to be home though😊
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I’m glad the various storms didn’t dampen or destroy your holiday. And somehow, regardless of the fun, it is always nice to come home!
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We were very lucky with the weather! The seas were a bit rough near Ireland, but nothing a little Dramamine couldn’t fix.
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That’s a nice set of kinks you have there, Michael! Had to look up PIV and I’m pretty sure you don’t mean “Particle image velocimetry” but I delved some more and now I have a clue. I’ll add that to one my kinks now, too, as long as I can remember the term 😁
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I thought you had a clue!! lol
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The more kinky people I meet online, the more proud I am of my own kinkiness ; ) I mean, hey, I don’t have to go far into my brain for good, strange writing material.
Meno<3
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The female form is living art – so pleasant to look at. Your Queen has a very nice body (and I’ve noticed on occasion – a very dark tan)
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Her skin is a little darker at most times, but she also tans very easily. She has some native Canadian blood in her veins. That likely is the reason.
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