So my Queen is going through menopause! Obviously a favourite time in all women’s lives…(cough, cough). She went without a period for three months but started her most recent period on March 11th. It was a very heavy period and it went on and on and on! It just ended a couple of days ago–more than three weeks of heavy bleeding. My Queen doesn’t like to have sex when bleeding but on March 31, she was so horny that she de used we would have some fun. We lay several towels down on the bed and had an additional two towels to wipe ourselves down before moving to the washroom to clean up. I couldn’t believe the quantity of blood–fully two weeks after it had started and it still was going very strong. We played and she had 5 orgasms and then we went and cleaned up. A week later she was still bleeding. Heavy too! We talked about her going to see a doctor because there was so much blood but then it finally stopped very abruptly on Wednesday. More than three weeks of heavy bleeding. So glad it’s over. Can’t wait till the hysterectomy–I’m hoping that all will be well afterwards. They offered my Queen a date at the end of April, but she wants to wait and have it done in the Fall!
On another note, I wore the Nub for a week. It was during my Queen’s period so there wasn’t a lot of action but a few more thoughts on the device… There are two sharp edges on the base ring. They disappear when the Nub is attached, however when removing the cage I had to put a couple of fingers under them to avoid pain. There does seem to be something about Caged Lion’s theory that a small cage is less of a problem when sexually excited. But more experimentation would be needed for me to fully buy into that. Still what I’ve experienced suggests he is correct.
So I am likely to only wear the Nub on rare occasions. Once on, I found it comfortable, but I had so much difficulty getting it on. It took way too long to do. I am considering shortening my Jailbird but I won’t go quite that short. It’s too short for me.
As to orgasms for me, it has been 41 days since my last orgasm. So this year I have only had one orgasm so far. I know I’ll be allowed more in the summer–or at least I suspect I will. My Queen likes to see me cum and clean it up. 😜