Introspection—Inspired By Miss Violet Grey

So Violet recently blogged about her sexuality, labels and coming out.  There was more to the post than that, and I think it is worth reading, but it started me thinking.  I don’t care about labels.  I certainly don’t care about people’s sexuality.  As long as you are only involved with adults, everything is fair game.  But as I say, it started me thinking.

I have never had a homosexual experience.  However my Queen and I often fantasize about inviting another man or woman into our sexual life.  She talks about making the other man penetrate my ass.  She also talks about forcing me to suck their cock or lick her pussy while they are fucking her.  In the latter case, I would of course also be licking his penis as it pistoned in and out of her.

These fantasies do turn me on.  I do like humiliation and being “forced” to do naughty and kinky things.  So the aspect of being made to perform orally on a male or to be forced to accept a penis in my ass really gets my blood pumping.  Often in our fantasies, I am still caged, and that added embarrassment works so well in our fantasies.  But would I actually do these things?  I have no attraction towards men.  But I long to serve my Queen in any way she wishes.  So if she told me to suck off someone and drink their cum, I think I would do it.  It would be to please her–the male involved would be just someone helping me to please my Queen.  Ultimately, we may never know.  We are unlikely to involve another person or couple in our play.  The fear is our relationship might suffer irreparable harm in such a situation.


Still, if it ever does happen, you’ll read about it here.  After all, I promised to be totally honest!


  1. Totally understand how a third person might change things. I almost did a threesome during my first marriage and looking back now, I’m glad I didn’t. I was too young then and that would have messed me up big time. It almost happened with a guy I was dating after that but he apparently hadn’t asked me first so that was a no go LOL

    Hope you and your Queen are doing well, Michael!

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  2. I don’t consider myself bi, but I feel the same as you…I have become quite a cum lover, because my wife allows me the privilege of doing my clean up duty whenever I am allowed to cum or I have an accident. After she fucks her fantasy bull, she always brings me home a nice cream pie to eat.

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  3. Well said Michael! Pet and I have a long-standing fantasy of a third man. I’m not into women sexually, just like Domming them. 😉
    Pet is bi so he would do anything I asked of him be it with me or the third party. The fantasy is amazing, in reality is when it gets a bit hairy. Lol

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  4. Interesting post Michael. Like you I also don’t like labels and my position on everything you wrote is just about the same. My homosexual experience is limited to a single short period more than 30 years ago when I was in the army and there was a guy who was hitting on me. It took me some time to “convince” him that I was really not interested even though my unwanted erections spoke otherwise.

    Up to about 5 years ago I would describe myself as strictly straight. Now if pressed to be completely honest I would admit that I am a little bi-curious. I am not sexually attracted to men as such, but I admit that big cocks do fascinate me. Mostly in the context of what they could do for and to my Wife (who really loves big toys) that I am unable to with my penis. So in that same context it turns me on to think about naughty and kinky things I would be forced to do if my Wife engaged a well endowed bull and wanted me to join them and service them both. There are some hard limits to what I would be willing to try, though. Sucking cock (and swallowing cum or licking it from my Wife’s pussy) or getting fucked in my ass is something I would be willing to try, not just to do what my Wife wanted to see, but also to satisfy my own curiosity.

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      • I would say there is only a very slim chance. All planets and stars would have to be in perfect alignment…
        We do talk about it though (also very explicitely) but for Her it is just a joke to feed my kinkyness. Many times She tells me She’s meeting Her lover when She doesn’t want me to know where She’s going, just to tease me. Or tells me to call before coming home so that She can send him away… Or tells me how incredibly it was to feel a real big cock for a change… She knows I would not stand in Her way if She wanted more in sex than I can provide (I am aware of my shortcommings and I honestly want my Wife to have it all if She likes…) and that the idea excites me. All I ask for is that She tells me openly about it (before or after) if it ever happens. I would like to be included or at least be allowed to watch them fuck, but I would left it to Her to decide. She told me seriously that She would never ever allow me to touch another Woman sexually (this was when I gently suggested meeting another couple) and that if She ever had sex with another man (She didn’t reject this idea as strongly as the one about me orally pleasuring another Woman) She would not want me to know about it. I cannot persuade Her that it is not cheating if I give my consent.

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  5. These words –
    “I don’t care about labels. I certainly don’t care about people’s sexuality. As long as you are only involved with adults, everything is fair game.”

    This is where I stand on labels and sexuality. Happy for everyone to do what they want to do and be what they want to be, as long as they are consenting adults.
    I too have a fantasy about involving another in play with me and my man. Male or female, I have various scenarios that I get off to in my head. But I think that is where it will stay, in my head, I would hate to damage our relationship – we are not ready for that kind of dynamic, and TBH I don’t mind if we never are.;-)

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  6. When my partner told me She was poly, She asked me if that would be a dealbreaker, and I told Her no. I have no issue with Her inviting another man into the relationship. A few months later, I came out as bisexual, and I think She has been playing with my interest in men ever since. We haven’t had a threesome, but that’s always an open possibility.

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