I follow a great number of people. Few however are living life similarly to me. However, three that I follow are somewhat like me: Caged Lion; Submissive Husband; and Her Wish My Command. These are not the only males I follow who are caged or submissive to their wives, but they are amongst the most prolific of those I follow. I do follow some women who write about their submissive husbands–some of them caged as well, but while I love their blogs, they write from the woman’s perspective. It is cool to get their perspectives but these three blogs above are interesting to me as I can often very easily imagine myself in their exact situations!
Caged Lion has been doing the chastity cage thing for over 6 years now. Both he and his wife write an almost daily blog post. So two posts a day, every day, makes for a lot of words. Caged Lion also is spanked on a very regular basis. He lives a life of domestic discipline and Mrs. Lion has become an expert with the large variety of paddles they own. In many ways Lion is his own worst enemy–he has over the years found and purchased new paddles and other things designed to cause pain/discomfort. He then introduces these things to his Lioness and they become part of their disciplinary process. He has also found and tried many different cages. I found him to be a very useful resource as I got into this lifestyle! Because of Lion I purchased a Jailbird cage and introduced Icy Hot to my Queen! She loves applying that stuff to Angus and the boys! I can’t recall if he was the inspiration for the zapper, but he may well have been that too! And the zapper is my Queen’s favourite!
Lion and I are similar in some respects. We both find the idea of punishment very erotic and will usually have erections at the start of our spankings, zappings , or other punishments! Those erections go away as the reality of the punishment begins to be felt! And yet we both crave the discipline and demonstrated power given to us by our wives! Indeed for me, I long for my Queen to exert her power–it’s my greatest aphrodisiac! If she tells me to do something (unpleasant, embarrassing, or out of our normality), Angus immediately fills his cage! Her exercising of her power just does it for me!
Years ago before we started this lifestyle, I was at a conference–full of high powered people all dressed to the nines! I reached into my suit jacket pocket and felt something weird. I pulled it out and it was a pair of my Queen’s thong underwear! No instructions, just the underwear! I thought she wanted me to put it on so I went into a washroom stall and made the change. Angus wasn’t caged, and he grew to maximum size! I had to keep my jacket buttoned for a while to hide the bulge. The excitement came from her idea not from wearing the women’s underwear! But the excitement was real!
Cincy34 or SubmissiveHusband is submissive to his wife. I find their dynamic to be so fun and erotic. Cincy34 is not caged, but his wife has total control of his orgasms. She does a lot of teasing and denial while he gives her orgasms as often as she wants! Cincy34 loves to please his wife. He loves the feeling of being teased and denied! This is the commonality that we share, as I also love to please my wife and I love being denied. That sense of growing horniness and that longing to explode that stays with you are feelings that exquisitely define me!
Her Wish is another fellow who “suffers” denial while pleasing his wife. She is becoming more and more dominant and he is enjoying every moment! When I started following him, he wasn’t caged, but they have been experimenting with cages bought off the shelf. Recently they ordered a Jailbird from Mature Metal. I’m not sure that it’s arrived yet, but his wife seems to be the driving force behind this change. Initially Cincy34 had brought up the idea of a cage two years ago. But recently, his wife decided that they would try a cage and see how it worked. This is exciting to me! I love to hear about women who initiate the caging of a male–those women who love taking control of a males erections!! Like all of us mentioned in this post, his wife controls his sex and the frequency of his orgasms! Again when I read his blog I feel a similarity and likeness to him. Though I don’t think he is punished by spanking!
One difference between these three men and myself seems to be my love of erotic humiliation! I do love to be displayed and humiliated! I don’t want this to be done when kids are around or when in vanilla company! But in the correct situation, humiliation makes Angus strong! lol
So I love to be forcibly exposed! I love to receive golden showers!
Being spanked in front of an audience, or being nude and performing sexually is a huge turn on! Being made to disrobe where there is a chance of discovery is exciting! Being told to drink my Queen’s champagne at a party would be heavenly!!
Thanks to Pinterest for the pics! Some stats to end with: I’m now 85 days since my last orgasm. I’ve been living the caged lifestyle now for over three years myself. It’s different from how I loved before. But some things haven’t changed. I still love to please my Queen. Her happiness is so important to me. Personally, I’m nice and horny and living the dream!!