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Caging at Work—or No Urinal Use Here aka Cock Bondage!

I’ve seen a few posts lately by guys who are in the process of becoming “caged” men. In at least one case, one of the gentlemen suggests that he will be wearing the cage at his ladies request–but not when he’s at work, not when he’s sleeping, not when he’s doing this, and not when he’s doing that… in other words in the course of a week he may wear the cage 3-4 hours a day–maybe! And that’s ok! If it works for him and for his lady, then it’s great.

But I think he’s missing out on what the caging experience can be. I’ve now been caged for over three years. I’m out of my cage almost always when I’m at the gym though I recage after my workouts. However cleaning up after my workouts without the cage allows me to do a proper shave of my nether region. Other than that, I’m basically only out of the cage whenever my Queen desires it!

So usually I’m in my cage for 21-22 hours every day. On days I don’t go to the gym that might be all 24 hours. If I miss going to the gym for several days, I’m caged for 72 or more straight hours. I sleep in my cage. I go to work in my cage–I live life in my cage!

I haven’t a key at work. My Queen has two keys. She keeps one hidden and I don’t know where it is. At the moment it’s on her dresser most of the time so she doesn’t have the hassle of getting it out for me when I’m going to the gym. It’s on my honour not to use it when I’m home–though if I did, she’d likely know almost immediately as she works from home. There is another key sealed in an envelope that has been written on by my Queen. I do know where it is, but it’s the emergency key and I would need a very good reason to access it. So when I leave for work, I’m caged at least until I get home. Truthfully I’m caged until my Queen decides otherwise. lol

It’s become second nature for me to sit to pee. I never take the chance at a urinal at work. If I spray, I don’t usually have alternative clothing to wear so I always sit. There are times when my Queen has me uncaged and I will still sit to pee–not even thinking about it (it’s a rule for me to do so, but it hasn’t been enforced in quite some time so I could likely stand with impunity–I just don’t).

I often wonder what would happen if I was in an auto accident and had to be taken to hospital. The doctors and nurses would be surprised. As would the maintenance worker who would be asked to bring a lock clipper to the emergency ward! And yet I’m ok with that.

I sleep very well with my cage. Yes at times in the night, Angus attempts to rise but the cage prevents that. I like the feeling of Angus pushing against the bars of his cage when I’m awake. I don’t really notice at night.

My Queen will sometimes look at the cramped and bulging Angus and say things like “Poor Angus–trapped in that awful cage!” But words like that and others are serving to tease me and add to my horniness. And Angus can bulge very well! lol

At any rate I guess the point is, I would find wearing the cage so little (3-4 hours each day) would make the experience more like play than a lifestyle to me. Because for me, it’s important that I feel it’s a lifestyle and that I haven’t any choice. It’s important that I feel my Queen’s ownership all through the day and the night.

Wearing the cage to sleep and to work accomplishes that for me. Having the cage worn like this really emphasizes how Angus belongs to my Queen and not to me!

Sometimes I get hyper horny and on days like that I may ask my Queen to put the key (that’s currently in the open) away and out of sight. I don’t need the temptation. I haven’t masturbated now in years, but don’t want there to be any chance of my doing so. I likely wouldn’t, as it is against the rules, but it’s strangely comforting not to be able to get out of the cage. That “cock bondage” is a real turn on for me! That’s why I pursued this lifestyle with my Queen in the first place!

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  2. When HD is submissive and in chastity, he wears it continuously. Showering and medical visits are the exception (unless I say otherwise). There doesn’t seem to be a point in only a few hours a day really. Part of the allure is knowing he’s unable to have an erection or masturbate, and that illusion is ruined if the device is only worn for a short period of time.

    One of the reasons HD decided to try the leather chastity belt was that he found wearing a cage for extended periods of time cause some issues with friction. (I’ll have to ask him precisely where again, I was upset about something unrelated at the time and don’t recall the details now.) He can usually wear one for two, maybe three days before he develops a sore spot on his skin. Could be a sizing issue, but I think it’s also an anatomical one. The belt fits better overall, so we didn’t have as many problems with him wearing it. He was out for showers, one medical appointment, and the last evening of his submissive period because he had a tender area on his thigh from the netted portion rubbing his skin. Because he wore it continuously, he had a greater sense of submission and feeling owned.

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    • I think sizing may indeed be part of the problem leading to skin issues. If the problem is on the skin underneath the ring, a light amount of Vaseline will likely eliminate that problem. Thanks. But if the belt worked for you guys, then great!! Your posts indicated that HD had no issues with comfort on his weekend. And he wore it most of the time. That gives the full effect of your control to him. And that’s what it’s all about for me! I thought the strap up the rear would be too wide for me to wear comfortably but I’ve never tried it so that’s a guess.

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  3. Cannot wait to cage pet! He is pretty excited about it as well. Honestly I had to go back and find his post about his last orgasm. It was 96 days ago! 😮 I thought it had been much less lol so what’s a few more months 😂

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  4. I have to confess that I never much cared for men being caged, but you put it into great perspective by pointing out the different to wearing it ‘just for fun’. It’s a life-style choice, like so many others. I’m still not convinced that I’ll ever care to keep a man in a cage, but then, that’s not the point. Thanks for sharing, and I totally get why it’s a real turn-on for you.💋💋💋

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  5. I think, based on my own experience and my Logan’s experience, that having that “secret” that could be discovered quite a turn on. I often think- what if somehow someone notices my marks or writing? It’s like stealth exhibitionism lol.
    Just curious- does it hurt when Angus grows in the cage?

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  6. That’s a very lovely post! I have been wearing a cage for six months now. I get out of only on weekend for cleaning, and only when my wife wants sex with me. I am going to write a post after seeing yours. thanks for sharing.

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    • I have purchased several cages and worn them for a few days at a time. My wife tends to not like them and thinks it is “intimidating”. I usually give her the key when I have one on and tell her that she is in control of when she wants it removed. I truly wish that she would be interested in that level of controlling me, but alas she isn’t.
      Several years ago I realized what a mess men make by standing to pee and resolved to sit unless there was a urinal available in a public men’s room. It is now very routine for me to sit when peeing.

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  8. Hi, i’m also caged 24/7 and only allowed to remove the (metal) cage when my wife wants to. It can be for cleaning purpose or sex (but i’m not allowed to orgasm). I’ve been in a work related accident and the hospital personel didn’t mention the cage although i’m 100% sure they noticed because they told me i had a full body checkup when i regained my senses again hours later… Every now and then they probably see a caged cock and i assume its an unwritten rule not to mention it unless it has to be removed.

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      • For some reason I tend to get erections while sleeping, probably during a dream. I have found these erections while caged to be very uncomfortable, yes painful, and I am a masochist. The erection pulls the head of my cock and stretches my scrotum out painfully. I don’t mind at all about the cock in the cage, it’s the part that is not in the cage that hurts.

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      • When I’m caged I attempt to get erections, but the cage largely prevents that. There is pressure put on the scrotum and testes, but it usually isn’t painful.

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    • True!! Find a reputable cheapie brand and give it a try. Try and match your body dimensions to this cage and go from there. After wearing it for a bit you will know what about it works and what doesn’t. You’ll also have a better idea on sizing. Then you can try and get a more permanent cage on your second attempt. Or third… Unfortunately, it does take some effort to find a proper fitting cage and there are costs involved. Good luck!

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    • I do like cages with bars—for instance the Jailbird by Mature Metal. However this is expensive and custom sized to you. So I would recommend trying something cheaper first. The reason I like the bars in cages is how much easier it is to clean and maintain cleanliness in such a cage. I have a CB 6000 and a Nub. They are more tubelike and cleanliness is far more difficult.

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      • I also wear a Jail Bird 24×7 or as my Mistress wife commands. She likes the look and feel of it. At night I must face towards her and she will hold and stroke me with one hand as she goes off to sleep. She says she finds it comforting to feel me straining through the bars as she thinks about the day and fades off to sleep.

        I usually get 24 hrs off after an orgasm and a few hours on a Sunday after we have done our 7 mile walk and I have had a thorough clean and wash after. One of the nice effects of that is the ‘transition’ of being ‘forced’ to put it back on after having started to enjoy some freedom. She sets a timer and if I have not presented myself to her fully locked by its expiry – it’s immediate strokes awarded which rise rapidly by the minute. The thought of being forced to put it back on can sometimes make doing so be quite difficult!

        It’s locked with a small ABUS Tilanium padlock which is very strong, and corrosion resistant. I have no access to any key. Once or twice I tried hunting for it but have never managed to find it and it got me into trouble. So if I had to get out it would be diy store for some bolt cutters. I am extremely grateful for her control and feel very loved.

        Thanks for your blog from a long time lurker.

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      • Thank you for your comment! And for ceasing to be a lurker! 🤣😂. That would be a nice way to fall asleep—for the both of you! I do enjoy when my Queen plays with Angus—regardless of whether he’s caged or not! How often does she allow you orgasms?

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  11. There is never any set time but tends to be about every 2 weeks. Longest has been 4 weeks. Truth is I am not very good at control and when I am inside her she usually wants me to stay for longer than I can manage and then she permits me even if that wasn’t her intention to start. I do so admire your stamina.

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  12. My Wife is reluctant to try to lock me up. I hope I will be able to persuade Her in the future. I don’t masturbate anymore (Her rules) but I cannot resist touching myself, which is also against the rules. To be locked up would be a perfect solution to this, but still She resists. Obviously She prefers to scald and punish me for my transgressions.

    I think the way you two do it is the right way. I would want to be caged 24/7 most of the time, once we find the right cage and I get used to wearing it. My penis is my Wife’s property even now. But of course, whatever the Lady wants, that’s how it will be.

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