So if you’ve read a few posts of this blog, you know that for over three years now, I’ve been in a Mature Metal Jailbird cage! I’m out only when my Queen decides and usually only because she wants easy access! I wear it to work and out and about without a key or access to one. To access a key, I must return home or have my Queen bring one to me.
Further to that, we live an FLR lifestyle–with added domestic discipline! In common parlance, I’m living the male chastity lifestyle. So obviously I am always very horny and I’m willing to do anything (ANYTHING!!) to be granted an orgasm!!
Well I am pretty well always horny! And I love to do things for my Queen and will do almost anything for her (within reason). But even after she grants me an orgasm I want to do things for her. I just love to make her happy and her life easier. It’s how I’m wired. However unlike the fantasy, I wouldn’t do anything for an orgasm! I would have limits. Now unlike many men in this lifestyle, my orgasms are few and far between. I’m currently at 121 Days since my last orgasm! And who knows when my Queen will decide I will cum again. She has talked about a wait of a year or more–and the last time she spoke this way I went 485 days. I do get hornier and hornier as the time increases and she does like me horny so I’m just going to enjoy the ride!
At any rate that got me thinking. Many people equate chastity with celibacy and they really aren’t the same–at least to us!! I seldom orgasm but I do have sex all the time! My Queen loves Angus to penetrate her Kitty regularly. She often allows me to use my mouth on Kitty too. And then there are our toys which get a regular workout–usually with my assistance. So I have a lot of sex. I am often brought to the edge of cumming multiple times when we have sex. Sometimes (often) I have to fight my own orgasms with all my being! My toes will curl as I do everything in my power to obey my Queen and avoid orgasm. Despite my burgeoning punishment number, I do try and obey her always.
So for us, chastity is related to orgasms and the denial of same. Celibacy would mean no sexual activity of any kind–we would include masturbation in that list of activities! So I am in chastity but I am not celibate. And this works for us!!
Today my Queen was frisky and we had some surprising alone time. She fed me a couple of glasses of her golden nectar and then we had some fantastic sex. I was allowed to use my mouth and penetrate Kitty with Angus. We used a couple of toys! Angus was left hard and I was frustrated but my Queen was satisfied and that is where she wanted it to stop. So I recaged and then cleaned the house after driving my beloved to work. It was lovely but I am so horny!! lol
So today, I was in chastity but I definitely wasn’t celibate! 😜