A few nights ago we had sex. My son works most Wednesday’s and doesn’t get home until close to midnight. That frees up some time for us and Wednesday has become a “date night” where we often get to have sex. It’s my Queen’s decision and it doesn’t always happen but it is becoming a more regular thing. So Wednesday night I was allowed to remove the cage just after 7:00. We cuddled and watched a little TV–several episodes of The Ranch on Netflix. Then we went upstairs and watched a couple of episodes of Gigolos on Crave. My Queen likes the eye candy and last night she was tired. She needed help to get in the mood. Me, I’m ready to go at the drop of a hat!! 😂🤣. However fatigue makes it difficult for my Queen to be able to relax enough to actually have sex and enjoy it. After a bit I started to caress her and warm her up. Then I slid down her body and started to use my mouth on Kitty. Angus was standing tall and Kitty was getting very wet. My Queen was starting to enjoy herself. So we had a nice but rather short time together. Somehow a lot of time had gone by and we really didn’t get going till it was almost 10:00. Still she did manage to have an awesome body quivering orgasm that ran on for several minutes. Afterwards while we lay together, she asked me how long I had gone since my last orgasm. I told her it was 299 days and she said my next wouldn’t happen until after my birthday. This would take me over the one year mark between orgasms. Then she said that would set a new record. I spoke up then and reminded her that I had gone 485 days before. She had forgotten and I pointed out that I had been supposed to go 744 days but that she had changed her mind and told me to cum after 485 days. Well she said we may just have to break that record! So I might have to wait a while longer than I had originally thought. Perversely this thought thrills me! In the mean time I will continue to please my Queen whenever I am given the chance. And this is because pleasing her turns me on!!
So as of today it is 302 days since my last orgasm. It may be another seven months before I am allowed to cum! But I will enjoy the journey.
you don’t blog regularly like you used to….. I know life takes over. I impatiently wait for your blogs. I’m glad you enjoyed your date night.
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I write about 5 blogs a month. Sometimes a few more and sometimes one or two less. But I am pretty consistent. You may not be getting all my blogs. I have had people tell me this. If you come directly to my site, you will see all my posts.
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yes i was not getting it….. then i read your earlier blog…. now i am …. thanks for that.
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My pleasure. WordPress is great but has wrinkles!
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yeah…. but its better than blogger
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yes consistency matters, thats what i dont have ….. im learning though ….
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We dont either Michael… everyone’s pleasure wants are different…yours are found in serving your queen and denial of orgasm! That’s not perverse…it sounds perfectly ideal for you. ..its a long time though!
Xxx
N
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I just don’t know how you do it, after a couple of weeks any stimulation, and I have an accident and a ruined orgasm.
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It isn’t easy. I do use a desensitizer. And a great deal of effort. lol
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Yay for a little bit of privacy! Sometimes it’s harder to get in the mood, but it sounds like you did a great job warming her up. 😀
I can’t imagine going that long without an orgasm, but I know you love being denied. So I guess I should say congratulations on the “threat” to break your record? 😛
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Honestly I’m of two minds. However I’m past 300 days now so it is less than 200 days to break our record! I can almost do that in my sleep. lol
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Good luck! I hope you’re able to make it (largely because I know you’ll be thrilled and so will she). Then the orgasm you do have will be all-the-more delightful for having achieved the goal 🙂
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I get the feeling that it is YOU not her who wants to put off orgasm longer and longer. Would you be disappointed if she wanted you to come next Wednesday?
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I actually thought she wanted that this week. But then she changed her mind. As I said I am of two minds. When she’s edging me I want to cum. But I don’t want to unless she tells me too. So if she says not until your birthday and then she changes her mind I would be disappointed in one way and happy in another. Because I’m psyched up to wait that long. There is no easy answer to that question. Last May, she told me I’d have to wait a year and I’m just over 300 days. So that is a goal I’ve had for awhile. If she changes her mind, then I’ll be sad not to reach my goal and yet happy to orgasm. Does that make sense?
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Do you still get ruined ones, I think I would be ok if I got those occasionally
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Haven’t had any in that time. Sometimes she teases that she’s going to do so, but she always changes her mind.
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Hehehe I think ruined is kind of a loaded word, they certainly aren’t terrible
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If they’re done properly, there isn’t much sensation. The trick I think is to have patience. Then eventually semen leaks out but without any feelings of pleasure.
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Yes. I had those after my wife died for a while then they gradually slowed to none. Then none for maybe gosh, 2 years or more! But not because of denial…just no interest or anyone to cause them!
Rex
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My hat is off Michael. Incredible. Desensitizing cream or not, to keep your cock useful for your wife in spite of frequent teasings and arousals and with absolutely no releases is something, I think, only few can achieve.
I recently had my first orgasm in 2020, two whole months after the previous one. This was the longest denial so far. When I am denied for so long my penis is more or less useless for fucking. Twice my wife attempted to ride me to her own orgasm during this period and both times she got fed up with all too frequent interruptions of the rythm to prevent the imminent premature ejaculation.
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Thanks.
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Hey Michael I am sure I commented on this the other day?
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Hello May
To be honest I can’t remember, but I don’t think so. I haven’t deleted any comments. So perhaps it was a WordPress glitch. They do occur at times.
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i will comment again later then 😉
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Thank you. That’s very kind!
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I find this fascinating. What about wet dreams? I know if I don’t have an orgasm for say a month I will have one in my sleep. And when u are playing with your Queen there must be times when you almost can’t hold back?
May x
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There are definitely times when I’m right at the edge. But I don’t have wet dreams. Don’t think I ever have. I sleep caged almost every night so erections and stimulation isn’t possible. Perhaps that also helps to prevent wet dreams. The edging feels fabulous. And the horniness is really a constant presence in my life. I love that.
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Yes i remember the new energy early days of my relationship and I felt like I was constantly on heat – I like that feeling – the need for sex
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OMG! That’s exactly how I have felt for the last year! Sounds terrible! Like I’m a cat or a dog. But I al always on edge unless we make love really often. It must be psychological! Just catching up with your posts now Michael!
Hugs
Naomi
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I love when you visit. Catch up on your own time.
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I should add that my Queen likes to leave me right at the edge. Squirming not to cum. That is one of her pleasures!
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Over time, is it just as easy to maintain an erection after released from cage?
Or are you mostly caged when you give oral to her and intercourse isn’t the norm?
Keep up the great work!
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Erections are usually easy to maintain—I’m seldom caged when performing oral. She really likes penetration and tends not to like artificial cocks.
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I’m not sure if this is too much to ask, but would you be able to say how much oral/penetration a week or month she usually gets?
If I could get anywhere close to your goal, it would be quite an accomplishment.
I’m not caged, which I’m not sure if helps or not. And I also wonder if more penetration consistency or less helps last longer. As Tom mentioned above, it can be difficult to last long, especially when she’s on top.
Any recommendations would be excellent!
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I will think about it. I’ve never really thought about it before so I’m not sure I can give a good guess at the moment.
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I have not kept track of number of days, but I have just reached my previous record of 3 months since my last orgasm. I totally agree with you that I really want one during sex, but I also don’t want her to allow me to because I want to make my goal. It is very difficult to not orgasm, but fortunately my wife does not orgasm from intercourse so she does not miss out on my account.
Now that I have reached my goal I don’t know when she may decide to let me cum. Complicating that is the fact that our adult son just moved back in after over a year away. So much for empty nest! I am rather disappointed about this as I really was enjoying the freedom to do what we want whenever we want.
My wife and I have joked about me not cumming for a year, but I don’t know if that is likely or if I would even want to, kind of scary thought! At my age I worry that if I go that long without we may just never have me cum again as I fade into the sunset.
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I use an app for keeping track of days, weeks months or years. It counts down or up. Useful for other things too.
I know what you mean about empty nest syndrome though. That freedom is intoxicating. We are almost there.
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Lmao as I was reading this I was like, NO MICHAEL what are you doing?!?! Don’t say that she will…..
But hey, looks like you don’t mind 😉
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