collaredmichael

The BDSM Test—I Knew Exactly What It Would Say!

So reading Rex and Naomi’s post the other day I saw Naomi’s results to this test and I thought I would try it myself. I was pretty sure what the results would be but here they are:== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Submissive

100% Rope bunny

99% Degradee

99% Exhibitionist

98% Voyeur

97% Slave

97% Brat

77% Non-monogamist

75% Experimentalist

75% Pet

74% Masochist

65% Primal (Prey)

37% Boy/Girl

25% Vanilla

2% Brat tamer

1% Ageplayer

1% Primal (Hunter)

1% Switch

1% Daddy/Mommy

0% Rigger

0% Dominant

0% Degrader

0% Owner

0% Master/Mistress

0% Sadist

The results are pretty accurate but there are some things I disagree with. For instance I don’t think I’m a brat, but according to this I’m 97% brat. I may break rules or act inappropriately at times, but it is never intentional. I think a brat always intends to cause trouble. And it suggests I’m a non-monogamist (77%). That one is an interesting result. I won’t cheat on my Queen but I guess I do fantasize about being her cuck and serving her in that manner. Ultimately I want her to be happy. So any explorations in non-monogamy would have to be instigated by my Queen. I would follow wherever she led.

I’ve never been called a bunny of any type either…  Seems strange to see that! lol

On the chastity side, I’m at 328 days since orgasm.  Only a little over a month to go before I reach a year!  My gym is closed now, so I’m in the cage 24/7 without release.  I used to get out while I went to the gym but there isn’t any reason for that now.  My daughter’s job has closed down, so she is back with us to save money.  Therefore there is precious little time when we are alone in the house.  So play-time is difficult to find.

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Gratuitous picture of Angus caged!

On the plus side of things, I’ve managed to catch up with almost everyone I read and follow on here.  Stay safe!

Published by collaredmichael

First thing--this blog is NSFW! It's about my journey in chastity and a FLR! I admit I was the one who suggested chastity and then asked for an FLR. But both of us are enjoying the ride. I'm a married man with children. Some of my children are special needs. Creates a lot of stress for my wife and me. At work I have a lot of responsibility with many people under my control. I love sex and used to masturbate frequently! I was curious about being caged and the chastity lifestyle so I approached my wife about trying it. After some kinks were worked out, the chastity lifestyle is now working very well for both of us. My wife hasn't a submissive bone in her body. She doesn't want a weakling or a sissy but she is enjoying being in control. Very recently, we discussed a full FLR. She had never heard of it, but after thinking about it she decided to try it. A few changes later, we are living the life! lol An addendum: I have told my Queen about this blog. I currently have 163 posts. So we are rereading them all together. I was so very nervous about doing this—not sure why, but it went well. She was a little uncomfortable in how long it took for me to tell her, but has enjoyed reading what I’ve written. Indeed she has suggested pictures for future posts.

19 comments

  1. Gotta disagree about brats! I am a huge brat, but I never deliberately break rules or try to cause trouble. I joke and tease and laugh, I will sometimes give HD a hard time so he has to physically wrestle me into submission…because it’s fun for both of us, and it engages his Primal. The misconception that brats are insolent and intentionally misbehaving is so widespread.

    The lack of playtime sucks, especially when you’re accustomed to having more time for it. Hopefully this is temporary, there seem to be some improvements on Covid-19 testing and I saw something about China being clear of new cases. I have my fingers crossed that this all means we will see a slow down of infection rates soon.

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  4. I redo this test periodically. What I’ve found is my mood for the day changes my results significantly. lol It depends, too, on if I answer according to my fantasy life or just my actual day-to-day living. I live 24/7 as a sub in a DD/lg relationship. I wouldn’t change anything about this!!!! I don’t want to be a Domme or to switch at this point, but I have in the past and my fantasies go there at times. I can alter my results hugely by what direction I go in answering. The only constants are that I’m more submissive than switch or Domme and I’m a bratty little. ♥ And I don’t brat to create drama…. it’s to make Daddy laugh and bring levity and joy into our home. If I’m bratting in a negative way there is something SERIOUSLY wrong in the relationship and it’s time to get out. 🙂

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      • Michael, I saw your reply to another comment about adjusting your view on bratting. 🙂 ♥ I was simply sharing my experience as a brat and in the context of my test results. 🙂

        My former Dom was overly strict and punished often. When I became unable to deal with it in an adult manner because I wasn’t being heard and my concerns weren’t being taken seriously- I turned to purposeful, negative, mean bratting in a passive aggressive way to get my needs met. It was bad all around. Playful bratting is much different.. fun for both partners!!! I see bratting that isn’t fun for both as being a VERY bad sign of the state of the relationship and/or the brats coping and communication skills. In my case, it was a combo of both. Overwhelm puts me in little space faster than anything else. *sigh*

        Sorry for my long ramble!!!

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  5. I have done this test and questioned some of the results too. But I also found some of the questions were hard as the options didn’t exactly fit which is probably why. I sympathise with your lack of opportunity for privacy now. We see the same and, as the kids come home, it becomes busier. I am sure you will get creative and hope if so, you will share your great ideas with us all 😊

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  7. The time I don’t like about this test is that there’s no space for being curious about something, and wanting to try it versus actually trying it.
    Also, I think we mostly answer it with ideas in our head, so sometime they she what’s desired not what’s in reality.

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